Life is fragile. When we are born, we begin exploring the world around us and rely on our parents to guide us in navigating this harsh world. We follow the rules and guidelines set by our parents, although these rules may not necessarily be for us but rather what they learned from their parents. As we grow older, we may realize that we are living to please others rather than living the life we truly want for ourselves.
As I reflect on the complexities of the human condition, I can't help but notice that many individuals' resort to harmful lifestyle behaviors, such as substance abuse, to cope with the external criticism they face. Unfortunately, this often results in their lives being cut short or being plagued by debilitating anxiety and depression. These individuals may feel overwhelmed and resort to silence the noise by using substances, which can exacerbate their struggles. We must acknowledge and address these issues to prevent further harm to those suffering.
Many people spend their entire lives living up to others' expectations. However, they often regret not living a life that allows them to be true to themselves.
As a first-time parent, I understand the value of instilling love and positivity in my daughter. Yes, there are rules and guidelines to keep her safe, but not to the point that she can't live. I want her to know that her existence is essential to my world...JUST LIVE! If more parents would breathe life into their children and accept and love them for who they are, people wouldn't be dying by suicide, turning to substances to numb the pain, or feeling like they aren't good enough by their parents or their inner circle.
We all have a responsibility to shape the outcomes of our loved ones and society. As Christians, if we abide by the Golden Rule of the Bible and treat others as we would like to be treated, the world will become a better place for all of humanity.
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